I am getting pretty good at this. Since one by one everyone we know is bringing a child into the world, we are getting into the habit of dealing with newborns and taking on the special roles of Uncle Gogolody (Tito JC) and Uncle T (Tito T-Train). Can we count this as practice for our own child? Of so, good…we can experiment to see what works and what doesn’t. Just kidding…I think we are going a decent job as role models for these children.

Yesterday after work I dropped by the hospital to visit with our friends J and N with their newborn baby boy, Tyler Michael. Tyler was brought into this world Sunday morning, a few weeks earlier than scheduled. Tyler just couldn’t wait to meet his favorite uncle (me!) and gift us with the joys of his cries.

When I walked into the hospital room yesterday and saw N in the hospital bed with J at her side standing over their newborn child, it was very emotional for me. Seriously. N even told me not to cry because I was getting a bit teary-eyed. I know how much they have planned for this moment and to be part of this momentous occasion was very special for me. Of course I had my camera to document this time together.

Almost immediately after walking in, J offered to let me hold his son. I took baby Tyler into my hands and the feeling was overwhelming. Such a precious life. Such a beautiful boy. Such a wonderful gift to a very special couple. And I am holding him. Tyler almost immediately drifted off to sleep - I tend to have that effect on people. In fact, after coming back from a brief break, J saw his son sleeping in my arms and commented “What, were you talking to him? It happens to all of us.” Nice way of treating your son’s favorite uncle, J! And so he slept the entire time I was there. OK, maybe I am seeing a pattern. Anywho…

N will be in the hospital until Wednesday and then spend a few weeks home resting and regaining her strength before resuming any type of work or extensive movement. J will also be taking some time from work to be with his newborn baby and wonderful wife. I plan on being visible at their home too to lend a helping hand as much as I can and to give them the greatest gift - my presence.

Back to the mushiness…As I was driving home from the hospital, it got me thinking about what our lives are like now and the change that a new child would bring. I welcome that change and look to the joys and challenges we will experience and share with a child in our life. I look forward to that day. I look forward and smile.